Single, Double, Cinta dan Tuhan

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Pada dasarnya, membaca kalimat-kalimat berunsur cinta, sungguh hal yang syahdu.
Rasanya, tidak satu pun manusia di muka bumi ini yang tidak merasa bahagia dengan cinta. Tidak satu pun orang yang merasa rugi ketika cinta datang menghampiri. Katanya, karena cinta datang dengan sangat memukau. Dia begitu lembut menyapa, dia memberi sejuk ketika menerpa, dan dia begitu anggun ketika mendekat.

Namun sayangnya, tidak semua orang mampu memahami cinta yang datang. Tidak semua orang mampu menerima cinta yang singgah. Tidak semua orang mampu mencintai cinta.

Dari sekian juta manusia di muka bumi yang jatuh cinta, ada sebagian dari jutaan tersebut yang merasa sulit karena cinta.

Ada beberapa kondisi yang cukup sering terjadi ketika cinta menjadi perkara rumit. Dalam konteks saat posisi single alias jomblo, misalnya 🙁
1. Jatuh cinta kepada yang tidak mencintai kita atau cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan

Ini sebenarnya banyak dialami, jatuh cinta terhadap orang yang jangankan cinta sama kita, nengok aja enggak kalau disapa 😀

Dalam kondisi seperti ini, biasanya orang akan merasa kecewa, sedih dan menyesal. Kmau akan berpikir dan berkata dalam hati, “Kenapa cinta gue bertepuk sebelah tangan? Apes!”

Yang mengalami hal seperti ini rata-rata akan sulit tidur, makan tidak enak, aktivitas terhambat, dan jerawat akan tumbuh di mana-mana. Cukup sulit dan menyiksa. Yah, mau bagaimana lagi, mungkin kekuatan cinta yang dimiliki belum mampu menggetarkan hati si dia yang ditaksir.

Sabar, yakin dan usaha aja terus ya, semoga nggak keburu ditikung orang ya, Mblo 😀
2. Jatuh cinta kepada teman dekat yang ragu atau takut hubungan pertemanan akan rusak.

Ini juga cukup banyak terjadi. Banyak di antara kita yang mempunyai teman dekat. Ada yang sudah bertahun-tahun menjalin pertemanan, bahkan ada yang sudah dekat sejak lahir. Untuk yang terakhir itu, biasanya karena Mamanya teman arisan atau teman shopping.

Sepanjang pertemanan, apalagi sudah lama, sudah pasti ada banyak hal yang sudah dikantungi mengenai diri masing-masing. Tidak lagi jaim, tidak ada lagi rahasia, tidak ada lagi saling kepo, meskipun mungkin saja ada beberapa hal yang tidak selalu dibagi dalam pertemanan. Yah, misalnya kalau lagi sama-sama mules dan toilet cuma satu. Masih rela bagi-bagi?

Dari lamanya dan intensitas interaksi dengan teman dekat tersebut, sudah pasti timbul rasa nyaman, rasa cocok, bahkan rasa ‘sepaket’ untuk banyak hal. Tidak jarang, ketika sudah mempunyai teman yang sangat dekat, andai berpisah dalam jangka waktu yang relatif lama, dia akan merasakan kehilangan yang sangat dalam.

Hal ini sebetulnya wajar, karena setiap harinya kita habiskan bersamanya, si teman dekat yang selalu ada dalam kondisi apapun kita. Ketika banyak hal disadari, cinta tidak lagi malu-malu untuk melancarkan aksinya di antara hubungan pertemanan ini.

Bagi sebagian orang, pertemanan dan percintaan itu adalah dua hal yang berbeda. Jadi bukan hal yang tidak mungkin, banyak orang yang tidak lantas menjalani cinta yang berawal dari teman dekat.

Mereka cenderung berpikir bahwa berteman saja sudah lebih dari cukup, berteman sudah mampu mencukupi rasa haus akan pengertian, pemahaman, perhatian, kehilangan, bahkan cinta itu sendiri.

Jadi, banyak yang lebih memilih “menyelamatkan” pertemanan daripada menjalani cinta yang mereka pikir nantinya akan memberi dampak kurang baik bagi hubungannya.

3. Mencintai orang yang sudah mempunyai pasangan. 

Bagi orang awam, cinta si single ini cukup ekstrem. Kenapa?

Ya jelas ekstrem jika mengingat perihal menyukai orang yang sudah “terikat” dengan orang lain. Orang biasa, yang melihat dan mendengar kondisi ini, tentu akan dengan sigap bilang, “Eh, lo yang bener aja, bae-bae lo sama bini orang! Salah-salah lo jatoh karena nikung orang!”

Yup, jika kondisi itu terjadi, maka kesan yang timbul adalah kita menjadi pihak pengganggu hubungan orang.  Kita akan menjadi pihak yang bersalah dan disalahkan.

Namun, andai kita mampu memahami hakikat adanya perasaan tersebut, bahwa perasaan itu hadir tanpa bisa dinegosiasi seperti menawar harga ikan asin di pasar.

Tidak terkecuali ketika cinta hadir, datang tepat membidik dia yang tidak lagi sendiri, cinta sulit bahkan tidak mampu untuk ditolak-ditawar.

Memang akan terasa sulit dan menjadi masalah jika kita tidak mampu mengendalikan dan berdamai dengannya. Akan menjadi rumit jika kita dikuasai oleh nafsu dan ego yang meraja.

Kepada si single, kepada si double, hakikatnya tetap sama, yaitu cinta. Mencintai.
Hanya saja, ketika mencintai orang yang sudah mempunyai pasangan, hendaklah berhati-hati, mawas diri, dan lebih memampukan diri untuk berdamai kepada hati, perasaan, jiwa, emosi dan logika. Meskipun sebetulnya, cinta itu tidaklah salah, karena boleh jadi, dia yang kita cintai adalah benar dia yang kita nanti.

Saya bukan berarti mematok pemahaman bahwa setiap cinta yang datang pada kondisi yang di luar “kemungkinan” itu amat sangat diperbolehkan dan harus dianut, tapi, kembali pada hukum dasar semesta dan keputusan Tuhan, bahwa tidak ada hal yang tidak mungkin.

Jika yakin cinta itu menuntunmu pada hal-hal yang baik, memberimu dan orang yang kamu cintai banyak kebaikan, perjuangkan. Dan berdoalah, agar Tuhan memberimu banyak kebaikan yang tidak sekedar baik untukmu, melainkan baik untuknya, baik untuk banyak hal.

Percayalah, Tuhan itu tidak pelit hanya untuk mendengar kemudian mengabulkan doa-doa makhluknya yang meminta kebaikan. Dan yakinlah, Tuhan akan selalu menggetarkan hati dia yang kita cinta dan rindukan 🙂

(Wek, @beb_wkwk)

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