The Untold Rule of Lesbian World

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Seperti yang hampir semua orang tahu, secara general lesbian dikategorikan menjadi 2, open and proud dan discreet.
Kalau kamu sudah coming out menjadi lesbian dan sudah open and proud,
congratulation, we’re proud of you. Tapi untuk sebagian lesbian, coming out masih menjadi
momok yang menakutkan dan butuh keberanian yang besar untuk coming out
kepada dunia.

Buat lesbian yang sudah open, jangan lantas
menganggap lesbian lainnya sudah open juga. Ini memang masalah sepele,
tapi imbasnya bisa cukup mengkhawatirkan untuk lesbian lain yang masih
discreet. Disadari atau tidak, dalam dunia per-lesbian-an ada ‘The untold rule’.
Rule yang mau tidak mau harus diikuti kalau kamu ngga mau dijutekin
sama lesbian-lesbian discreet lainnya.

Jadi, inilah beberapa rules menjadi open and proud lesbian yang bermartabat dan sopan.

Lesbian discreet (LD)
biasanya punya 2 akun untuk setiap socmed mereka. Akun primary dan akun
alter. Kalau kamu sudah berteman dengan lesbian discreet di dunia nyata
(bukan hanya berteman di dunia maya menggunakan akun alter), mintalah
izin apabila akan meng-add akun primary dari LD dan jangan marah kalau
friend request kamu belum atau bahkan tidak diapprove oleh LD, karena
mungkin mereka merasa tidak nyaman ter-ekspose di akun primary kamu,
terlepas dengan anggapan orang lain tentang apakah mereka tahu si LD ini
adalah seorang lesbian atau bukan.

Lesbian coming out (LCO)

Mungkin bisa lebih santai dan terbuka tentang masalah lesbian ke
orang-orang sekitarnya. Biasanya sih, setelah coming out, orang-orang
akan bertanya tentang hal-hal lesbian yang sebenarnya bikin mereka
penasaran juga seperti bagaimana cara lesbian having sex dan hal-hal lainnya. Untuk LOC, apabila akan membawa pacar atau teman
lesbiannya masuk ke dalam teman-teman straightnya, pastikan mereka tidak
ada masalah dengan hal itu, karena biasanya saat seorang lesbian
membawa teman perempuannya, si teman perempuan akan secara tidak langsung dicap
sebagai lesbian juga (meskipun tidak semua kasus seperti itu). Jangan
sampai jadinya coming out-in orang secara tidak langsung.

Hindari inner circle di social media.

Banyak yang menggunakan inner circle di social media untuk memamerkan kemesraan dengan pasangannya. Nah, bagaimana jika kamu dimasukkan ke dalam inner circle orang lain tetapi di sana banyak orang-orang
yang tidak kamu kenal, menang banyak dong mereka. Mereka bisa lihat nama
kamu, mereka bisa googling nama kamu, dan voila, secara tidak langsung
kamu coming out alus.

So, next time kamu mau memasukkan seseorang ke dalam inner circle social media ataupun dimasukkan ke inner circle, pikirkan hal ini terlebih dahulu.

Bagaimana
rasanya kalau ada orang lain yang tau kamu lesbian dari hal
sepele macem inner circle di social media? Pastikan kamu izin dulu dengan orang
yang bersangkutan untuk memasukkan mereka ke dalam inner circle mu. Ngga
semua orang merasa tersanjung dimasukkan inner circle lho, ada juga
yang merasa terancam.

(Gita, @citsatig)

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