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Kalian tahu nggak seberapa rapuh hati kita? Berdasarkan penelitian, dibutuhkan sekitar 224 twit, 163 SMS, 70 pesan Facebook, 37 emails, dan 30 panggilan telepon untuk membuat seseorang jatuh cinta. Pasangan dengan umur rata–rata 55 tahun memerlukan waktu sekitar 2,5 bulan (78 hari) untuk menjalin hubungan. Sedangkan untuk umur rata-rata 25 tahun membutuhkan kurang dari 1 bulan (sekitar 24 hari) untuk menjalin hubungan.

Dan Twitter adalah social media yang paling mudah untuk membuat seseorang jatuh cinta. Yep, semudah itu jatuh cinta di era digital sekarang. Quite good news, huh?!

Mengapa demikian? Bukankah seharusnya jatuh cinta adalah proses hormonal dan psikologis yang seharusnya melibatkan kontak fisik? Tidak juga. Oksitosin (hormone cinta) dilepaskan oleh otak yang menginduksi perasaan percaya dan aman. Interaksi sosial mengaktifkan sirkuit otak yang sangat kuat sehingga mampu melepaskan oksitosin neurokimia ketika kita berkomunikasi secara intens dan intimate bahkan dengan seseorang yang tidak kita kenal. Komunikasi yang intens dan intimate ini akan membentuk rasa percaya dan aman kita kepada seseorang dan secara perlahan akan muncul perasaan sayang atau cinta. Bagaimanapun juga, bisa dikatakan bahwa sekarang mencari pasangan menjadi kebih mudah daripada cari kerja. Thanks to Twitter!

Here’s the bad news. Social media adalah media yang sangat mudah dan murah bagi para scammer untuk bermain–main. Kebayang nggak sih kita udah jomblo 7 tahun, kanan kiri sudah punya pasangan, setiap malam Minggu hanya dihabiskan nonton TV sendirian. Kita hanya butuh seseorang yang benar-benar peduli kepada kita. Cara paling mudah untuk menemukannya adalah dari social media. Kamu tidak perlu keluar rumah, semua dapat dilakukan dengan hanya menggunakan jari-jarimu saja. Dan bila kamu beruntung, kamu akan bertemu dengan pasangan yang baik, seperti yang saya dapatkan sekarang. But, in your bad days, you will meet romance scammer atau penipu asmara.

Media paling mudah bagi para penipu asmara ini adalah dating site karena di sinilah banyak sekali ditemukan wanita/ pria kesepian yang mencari cinta. Namun dengan berkembangnya teknologi dan perubahan zaman, social media seperti facebook dan twitter juga menjadi media target mereka.

Berikut adalah motif dari romance scammer :

1. Uang

Surprising facts:

– In the USA, The Online Dating Romance Scam was one of the Top 5 Internet scams.

– 230,000 people may have fallen victim to romance fraudsters in Great Britain alone (2002)

– Victims of online dating scams lose nearly £10,000 each on average, research reveals in the UK

Pernah nggak sih dengar teman atau sodara yang pacaran jarak jauh dan belum pernah ketemu tiba–tiba dimintai uang setelah beberapa waktu dekat dengan pacarnya? Alasannya macam–macam, buat tiket apel, visa, atau sederet unfortunate events seperti kecopetan dompet, saudara meninggal, dan lainnya. Maka berhati–hatilah jika sebuah hubungan sudah melibatkan permintaan sejumlah uang, kita patut curiga. Bener nggak sih ini cinta?

Dalam prosesnya, terdapat 5 tahapan romance scamming :

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– Membuat profil akun yang sangat menarik. Biasanya profile picture diambil dari foto profil yang terlihat menarik bagi para calon korban.

Grooming the victim, yang artinya adalah si penipu melakukan manipulasi untuk mendapatkan kepercayaan korban. Banyak hal yang bisa dilakukan untuk mendapatkan kepercayaan korban seperti memberikan pujian, menyatakan cinta, memberikan kado kecil, dan hal-hal lainnya.

– Penipu mulai meminta uang. Dalam tahapan ini biasanya mereka melakukan upaya pancingan untuk testing the waters, seperti misalnya dia meminjam uang dalam jumah kecil dengan janji akan dikembalikan. Dan dia akan menepati janji tersebut. Namun kemudian, nominal akan bertambah sampai mereka benar–benar mendapatkan jumlah yang diinginkan dan jangan harap uang itu dikembalikan.

– Dalam tahapan ke empat ini, si korban akan mengalami pelecehan seksual via cybersex. Namun, tahapan ini cukup jarang terjadi.

Revelation. Tahapan ini adalah closing bagi proses scamming dimana si penipu akan mengungkapan atau tanpa sengaja diketahui bahwa semuanya yang terjadi adalah penipuan.

Namun, tentu saja itu baru tahap permulaan bagi si korban. Sudahlah hati yang ditipu, uang juga ludes. I can’t even imagine this.

2. Motif lainnya selain melibatkan uang adalah… She’s just psychopath or sociopath.

Sekitar dua tahun lalu, teman saya yang tinggal di Australia menelepon saya. Dengan tergopoh–gopoh dia bilang kalau ada salah satu teman kami upload foto–foto dia sedang telanjang dan bahkan ada foto bagian vaginanya saja yang diunggah di akun Facebooknya. Padahal ya, orangnya berjilbab dan sering banget posting tentang hal–hal yang berbau keagamaan. But yet, her faith doesn’t save her from a scammer. Setelah kontak dengan beberapa teman, saya akhirnya tahu kalau dia sudah beberapa tahun menjalin hubungan dengan seorang pria asal Turki. Mereka memang belum pernah bertemu, tapi cukup intense berkomunikasi via telepon, email, Facebook, dan media elektronik lain. Sayangnya, teman saya rupanya sangat mencintai pria ini dan bersedia mengirimkan foto–foto pribadinya. Dan setelah beberapa tahun, foto-foto telanjang teman saya ada di akun Facebooknyanya. She was emotionally drained and unstable when it happened. Sampai sekarang saya tak pernah tahu apa yang terjadi sampai pria ini log in ke Facebook teman saya dan mengunggah foto–fotonya. To me, he’s just a psychopath.

Pada scamming jenis ini, mereka tidak akan meminta uang, namun akan lebih sulit dilacak. Modus ini akan banyak menguras emosi kamu karena pelaku hanya melakukannya untuk kepuasan mereka semata. Tapi perlu dibedakan ya antara psychopath dan sociopath. Perbedaan penting keduanya adalah biasanya psychopath cenderung lebih berbahaya dan nekat dibandingkan dengan sociopath.

Cara mereka melakukan scam juga sama, mereka akan memanipulasi korban. Mereka akan memberikan pujian dan mengatakan seberapa spesialnya kamu di mata mereka. Mereka juga akan mengaku bahwa hanya kamu lah wanita yang sedang dekat dengannya. Guess what? You’re not! Mereka akan ‘mengumpumpulkan’ fans karena mereka sangan menikmati perhatian yang dicurahkan untuk mereka. Dan saat mereka sudah bosan denganmu, mereka akan meninggalkanmu tanpa penjelasan.

Lalu, bagaimana kita bisa mengidentifikasi penipu asmara ini apalagi kita banyak berinteraksi di dunia alter kita seperti sekarang? Use your common sense. Biasanya mereka akan sangat protektif terhadap indentitas asli mereka. Well, who doesn’t? I do too. Tapi saat kalian berencana untuk menjalin hubungan, kalian harus mau membuka diri dan memberikan akun primary kalian seperti Facebook dan Instagram. Dengan begitu, kalian dapat mengetahui apakah calon pasangan kalian ini memiliki niat tulus atau hanya scamming belaka. Kalian juga bisa Skype dan bertemu langsung. Penting juga untuk kamu mengetahui siapa saja orang-orang di sekitarnya supaya kamu tahu dia benar-benar memiliki niat untuk menjalin hubungan.

Sederhananya, let’s just go back to the formula, butuh waktu 1 – 2 bulan untuk jatuh cinta lewat social media. Sebelum kalian memutuskan untuk mengenal satu sama lain lebih jauh, mintalah untuk bertemu secara langsung dalam waktu 2 bulan perkenalan tersebut. Apabila dia menolak dengan seribu alasan, just walk away and find other girl.

(@tempejunkie)

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